How to deal sudden life changes with ease : Tips to deal with every problem.

How to deal sudden life changes with ease : Tips to deal with every problem.

Hello friends, once again I, Kanchan Nilesh Narvekar, welcome all of you to my blog "The Art of daily life". 

We talked about 

•  "Need of True friendship in current situation", 

• "Work from home expectations vs. reality and solutions" 

• "How to start again after failure - 10 useful Habits."

through our previous articles. You will definitely be eager to know what topic we are going to discuss today, 

Friends we are going to learn Tips about how to deal sudden life changes with ease.

Tips to deal with sudden life changes with ease.

Yes, we are going to learn tips and tricks to deal with sudden life changes. 

Life hasn't always gone in your way, it will definitely change for your well ?being or because of your choices which you choose in some circumstances. But you have to accept and be on that path and make it happier and healthier so that you and your beloved feel same. 

"Everything happens for a reason. 

That reason causes change. 

Sometimes it hurts. 

Sometimes it's hard. 

But in the end it's all for the best."

First of all I will tell you what would be these things which give your life drastic change with tips and tricks to deal with these situations 

1. Life and death experience: when you are near death, every single second of your life moving from your eyes like the movies. It feels like you did this but didn't get a chance to do that thing. And that moment if any miracle happens and give you a chance to live life again, it will change your life.

Tips:

•  Now life has given you a second chance to live your life again and don't repeat your past mistakes, make a list of to do things and make Priorities first and follow the list . 

2. Failures in career: everyone likes winning situations. We are making habits to win. We can't even imagined about failure. We over Imagine about our future. We think like after completing education we will get a job in big company and then we will do this and that. if things didn't turn like that way. it will change our life.

Tips:

• Career change is an obvious decision if you dislike your current job/career, if you are not getting as per your desired/ deserved. So don't feel failure about it try to use your social network, check newspaper advertisements about job search and give interviews. Learn new skills so that you will get better than your current pay scale. Know your positive points/skills and try to improve it. 

3. Watching a loved one collapse: sometime not yourself, but your love one and dear one's situation impact on your life. If he/she goes through failure it will change your life also.

Tips:

• Give them support, try to explain positive things about them, help them to realize how this situation  is for their well being. How they can start again and win again. 

4. Failing in school/college: education is the most important factor in everyone's life. And for any reason you got less grades or fail, then it will change your life.

Tips:

• Study hard, check extra classes for your week subjects, Take help from your friends and family members. Make a timetable for your study and follow it strictly.   

5. A breakup/divorce from a long term relationship: human is emotional animal. Very soon get attached with anything/person/situation. But if that relationship gets affected by any reason it will impact on your life drastically. 

Tips:

• Take help from lawyers, if you have Joint investments/property/ assets/debts, then discussed about what to do next after this, take documents copies of everythings,discussed about custody if you have children.also discussed about financial assistance so that you don't need to change your needs so much.

6. Losing shelters: shelters are one of our prime neediest. We are doing everything just to live better lives, comfortable home and all, but if for any reason you will lose your shelter it will hurt your self esteem and change your life. 

Tips:

• Hire agents for quick arrangements, check news paper advertisements about rental or buying properties as per your budget, check social sites, ask help from your social network.

7. Winning the lottery ticket: not always sad things affect your life sometimes happy things also change your life. If you win a lottery ticket, it will make you to change your lifestyle. 

Tips:

• Cross check about winning numbers, make list to utilize money for future needs.

8. Graduating from college: when you graduated from college you will become serious about your future. You will curious about what to do next? 

Tips:

• Decide about what you want to do next and have a desire to get that search on the internet about after graduation courses there are lots of courses to do next if you want to do post graduation then search which university is best? How much it will cost you? If you will do your post graduation, then how much you will earn? 

9. Getting your first job: when you get your first job you will Be happy as well as tense about how to deal with everything. How to manage everything. Need to change your lifestyle. 

Tips:

• Iron your formal cloths, keeps ready with all the documents, be sure about office timing and get ready and leave the house accordingly as per your travel timing. 

10. Being fired from your job: You are working in a very big company And you feel proud to tell everyone about it and suddenly you got fired. We can't handle it very easily. That momentous changes your life. 

Tips:

• Search for new companies, new job offer, and keep in mind that that was not the only company. You can get better opportunities ahead, prepare your CV, be ready for interviews, get help from others, ask for recommendations.

11. Having a child: child brings happiness, responsibility and it will change your life also. You have to change everything. Your lifestyle, your timetable, your priorities everything.. 

Tips:

• Accept the changes, make your timetable accordingly your baby's timing, search for baby sitting facilities, inquire about their policies, make sure about timings, talk with similar experience person so you get idea to deal with it.

12. A big accident: accident changes everything. You will become angry. And try to change everything in your life. 

Tips:

• Clear out the bills, check with doctors about your medications, talk to friends/relatives/counselor, do regular exercise as per suggested by doctor, try to act normal and try to do your routine work, if you have any symptoms related to anxiety or depression then inquire about meditation and don't hesitate to get help from counselor,Keep yourself busy with some activities.

13. Getting arrested: now people will look differently at you. You will  also not act similarly.  Your view about your life will change. 

Tips:

• You need one lawyer, your documents, and family support and faith.

14. Being married: marriage changes everything for both husband and wife. You need to change your lifestyle, timing, behavior, etc.. Tips:

• For a woman: Prepare your mindset before you enter in your new house, you have to change a lot, you need to adjust in your new house, new people, new environment, new rules, new traditions. Understand others privacy and priorities. Also be strong on your priorities  and privacy. For a man: you need to understand your wife's  feelings, shyness, new Place awkwardness if you help her to settle down in new people so that she will also adjust to the new environment.

These are just a few examples of the things that give your life suddenly changes, the actual list is uncountable. 

These changes give your life Very dramatic mode, it would be the happiest or saddest it depends on the situation and how you handle things because happy and sad both situations need some guidance to accept it. Above we have discussed problem wise solutions Now we just check some conclusions tips to handle these changes. 

so lets start:

• First of all you need to accept these changes.  You have to deal with it: I know it's Sounds difficult to accept the changes but for our well being we have to accept it so that you will able to learn to live in this situation. 

• Prepare your mindset as per these conditions: not only you, but everyone goes through same situations so don't feel low about it.

• You need to learn how to cool your temper as well as your emotions: these sudden changes 

• Prepare lists of good and bad things about these situations and compare both of it try to see positively towards it so that you will see the positive things.

• Set  goals for your life. 

• Learn meditation techniques so that you will keep your mind calm.

• Ask your friends/ parents/ partners help.

• Find your hobbies and try to develop it.

• Music is the best remedy in depression.

• Do regular exercise. 

• Take breaks from your routine life and give time to yourselves. 

So friends, once again time to say bye bye. That's all for now. Do tell me exactly how you felt about this article and let me know if you have any ideas.