How to start again after failure - 10 Useful Habits.

How to start again after failure - 10 Useful Habits.

Hello friends, once again I, Kanchan Nilesh Narvekar, welcome all of you to my blog "The Art of daily life". 

We talked about 

•  "True friendship need of the current situation"

• "Work from home expectations vs. reality and solutions" 

through our previous articles.

Our today's topic is as below:

How to start again after failure - 10 Useful Habits 

Failure affects the ego, self-esteem. It makes you start over. It has potential to hurt your feelings. Actually, 

you need to do some self observation and you will be back again on the path. You just need to try again and again. I know it's sounds impossible and irritating to keep trying. And also you cared about the world so you feared about what will they think about you? What they said about this? They will make a joke about you. 

Sometimes you don't understand how close you are from success and you gave up. It will make you feel sorry for a lifetime and you think why don't you try a bit and you will be successful. 

Why would all of us afraid of to be a failure? Why we don't understand failure is only the stepping stone to Success. We need to Learn from failures. 

If you go through the best quotes about success and failure, You will come to know that most of the successful people were also once go through some failures, but they learnt from their mistakes and with constantly tries they managed to turn their failures into success.

• "The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing." – Henry Ford

• "Failure is success if we learn from it." – Malcolm Forbes

• I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work. – Thomas A. Edison

• "Don't read success stories, 

you will get only message, 

read failure stories, 

you will get some ideas to get success" - Dr. A. P. J. Abdul Kalam

• “if you want to shine like a sun, 

first burn like a sun" - Dr. A. P. J. Abdul Kalam.

• “Man needs his difficulties because they are necessary to enjoy success." - Dr. A. P. J. Abdul Kalam.

• Put your heart, mind and soul into even your smallest acts. This is the secret of success.  - Swami Sivananda

• It's fine to celebrate success but it is more important to heed the lessons of failure. - Bill Gates 

• Sometimes by losing battle you find a new way to win the war. - Donald Trump 

They all are well-known and successful and everyone wants to be like them. If they tried hard to be succeeded, then why don't you try to some extends to turn your failure into success. 

You feel terribly disappointed if you can't get that success which you have imagined. Sometime you want to do bigger and you know you deserve that level, but because of your fear of failure you even don't try to go for it. 

These are the feelings of failures after that you lose your self-esteem, you feel terribly sad. 

If you are also going through all this then here are the tips and tricks to overcome from failure and start over again.

1. You need to accept that failure.

Yes.  You have to accept it positively, failure, mistakes or breakups whatever it is but you have to accept it. So that you will Stand again and prepare yourself. Don't fool yourself by telling it's ok when you are not. It is ok to feel sad, but for a while. If you are in such sadness for over months that doesn't make any sense. You have to accept that this time you failed, but you will learn a lesson from your mistakes and back again to fight for success. 

2. Share your feelings with someone special. 

When you failed or made any mistake, you felt tremendously guilty or disappointed, it's hurting your ego and self esteem that time you need support from your friends and family. They are there for you always. Talk with them, share your feelings with them so they will encourage you and show you the way to move out of that. As I have already mentioned in my previous blog "True Friends" 

3. Don't stick failure tag for a lifetime.

If you failed this time that doesn't mean you are failing for a lifetime. If you work hard and learn from that mistake, then definitely you will overcome from that. But for that you need to believe in yourself and take action to prove yourself again. If anyone distracts you from your path or making fun of you then cut them out of your life because that means they are not your well wisher if they are then they won't distract you but support you, encourage you. 

4. Let it go.

After failure you have to take breaks,relax for sometime and make yourself busy in your favorite place or in the hobby. So that your mind will also refresh and it will give you new energy to let it go.

5. You need to understand why this happens. 

Failure is not an end. But you have to learn from it. You need to understand what is the reason behind it? Take a time to relax and then make a quick review about why this is happening? Take a time and note down all your mistakes you have made which cause this failure and in the future don't repeat those mistakes again.

6. Think about what goes wrong and how much more efforts you need to make so that you will get your desired results.

You need to think why you are going through this failure? Which your steps go wrong? After all this research you will come to know about the reasons. Now don't waste your time to feel sorry and sad again. Move ahead and decide how much more efforts you need to make? What planning and strategies you have to set? So that you will achieve your desired results. 

7. You just need to set some goals.

Now, as you have already relax and know why this is happening. Now you need to set some goals related to your observation about that failure/mistakes etc.. 

• You need to be focused on that goal.

• Try to make yourself self centered as sometimes we are too much involved in others feelings and because of that we failed to look for ourself. 

• Set goals which are easy to achieve and realistic. 

8. Managed time as per that. 

You have to set time for yourself to achieve that goal. And stick on that path and time. Be punctual about your timing.

9. Prepare planning for the same. 

Plan for your schedule. Make a timetable for your daily activities. Perfect planning and strategies are key for success. Every successful person has strategies to achieve their target. They prepare plans for months in advance so that it will make them successful. 

10. Some hard work and patience and you will achieve your goal.

You have to do some hard work on your emotional as well as physical aspects, Need some patience, courage and believe in yourself so that one day you will definitely achieve your goal.

Always remember, failure is just a word and it will surely change if you make efforts to achieve success. If you feel sad or hurt come forward and talk with your beloved. 

No one is perfect, all go through some failures, big or small whatever it is  But thing is how you overcome from it. As per Dr. A. P. J. Abdul Kalam said "Don't read success stories, you will get only message, read failure stories, you will get some ideas to get success"

So friends, once again time to say bye bye. That's all for now. Do tell me exactly how you felt about this article and let me know if you have any ideas.